We had our first experiences with Malawian food today, as well as family-style meals. The actual meal is very quiet and no conversation really goes on. We can sit down and eat with any of the families here; one of the children usually will come and invite us as we walk in the door.
For lunch I sat with a family of six children and their Mama; these children are between the ages of 3 and 5. They were very quiet and looked at me with interest and confusion mostly. The mother asked how my trip was and how I liked Malawi so far.
At dinner the children were much more lively and receptive to us; they crowded around us after the meal to shake our hands and look at us. I had my table's children (10) telling me how old they were by holding up their fingers, and they really liked that game because I took a vested interest in them and they can tell me about themselves. Before I knew it, all of them wanted to tell me how old they are! The oldest one I could find, who isn't 100, is eight years old. The majority of them are between 3 and 5, though. They speak 3 languages, so none of them very well, but they like to tell you words in their native tongue; I found that out at dinner. There is a set of twin girls here too, which I think is pretty rare, but I don't know anything else about their family history; they are fraternal, but when they stand next to each other, you can see the resemblance.
There is no wild game anywhere in the vicinity, but there are impressively big bugs! Lots of species like to come into the house when the lights are on, and things hop around in the tall grass when you walk outside. The children pointed out a snail to us on the way back from dinner and the snails here are also impressively large.
Its about bedtime for us, since we can't really justify sleeping until lunchtime tomorrow. We decided that our sleep last night was justified, but our general slothfulness is unacceptable, so we'll be turning in soon in efforts to get up with the rest of the staff for meetings tomorrow. :)
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You message was very informative. I guess it is very difficult for such young, and so many children being without their natural parents; and for one mama to handle such a group of young children. Children between 3-5 here in the US require a lot of attention and help to do things for themselves; like dressing, feeding themselves, bathing, etc. I guess it could be like having a couple of sets of triplets. I am sure that there will be plenty to do and that you all will be helpful.
Hey, you --- the children are really warming up to you now: good news! Hopefully you can share more and more with them as time goes on. Some of them will really grab your heart, honey -- try to be prepared for it.
The relationships you cultivate will be the legacy you create while in the Village, both for you but importantly, for these young, impressionable children. Give them worthy memories they can cherish, since they will remember you. I know they will share the same way. Love, Mommy
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